Sunday, September 25, 2011
secara pokoknya.
Sunday, September 11, 2011
#14- Zainab&Abu El'Ass
This is the real love story between Zainab bint Muhammad and Abu El’Ass ibn Rabee’ [ra]; Zainab was the daughter of the Prophet sws and her cousin Abu El’Ass, was Khadeeja [ra]’s nephew. He was one of the nobles of the Quraish, and the Prophet sws loved him very much.
One day Abu El’Ass went to the Prophet sws before he had received his mission of Prophethood and said:
“I want to marry your eldest daughter.”
So the Prophet replied: “I must ask her first.”
He sws went to Zainab and asked her: “Your cousin came to me and he wishes to marry you, do you accept him as your husband?”
Her face turned red with bashfulness and she smiled.
So Zainab married Abu El’Ass, the beginning of a great love story. They had two children; Ali and Umaymah.
During this course of time Muhammad became a Prophet while Abu El’Ass was away from Makkah. Abu El’Ass returned to find his wife a Muslim. When he first came back, his wife said,
“I have great news for you”.
He stood up and left her. Zainab was surprised and followed him as she said,
“My father became a Prophet and I have become a Muslim.”
He replied, “Why didn’t you tell me first?”
Hence a big problem began between the two; a problem of religion and belief.
She told him, “I wasn’t going to disbelieve in my father and his message, he is not a liar, and he is “The Honest and Trustworthy” [Al-Siddiq wal Ameen]. I’m not the only believer; my mother and my sisters became Muslims, my cousin Ali ibn Abi Talib became a Muslim, your cousin Uthman ibn Affan became a Muslim, and your friend, Abu Bakr, became a Muslim.”
He replied, “Well, as for me, I don’t want people to say, ‘he let down his people and his forefathers to please his wife’. And I am not accusing your father of anything.”
Then he said, “So will you excuse me and understand?”
She replied, “Who will excuse and understand you if I don’t? I will stay beside you and help you until you reach the truth.”
And she kept her word for 20 years.
Abu El’Ass remained an unbeliever, and then came the migration. Zainab went to her father and asked him for the permission to stay with her husband. The Prophet sws replied,
“Stay with your husband and children”.
So Zainab stayed in Makkah, until the battle of Badr occurred. Abu El’Ass was to fight in the army of Quraish against the Muslims. For Zainab, it meant that her husband will be fighting her father, a time Zainab had always feared. She kept crying out:
“O Allah, I fear one day the sun may rise and my children become orphans or I lose my father”.
So the battle started, and ended in victory for the Muslims. Abu El’Ass was captured by the Muslims, and news of this reached Makkah. Zainab asked,
“What did my father do?”
They told her, “The Muslims won”.
So she prayed to Allah, thanking Him. Then she asked: “What did my husband do?”
They said: “He was captured.”
She said, “I’ll send a payment to release him.”
She didn’t own anything of much value, so she took off her mother’s necklace, and sent it with Abu El’Ass’s brother to the Prophet.
While the Prophet sws was sitting, taking payments and releasing captives, he saw Khadeeja’s necklace. He held it up and asked:
“Whose payment is this?”
They said: “Abu El’Ass ibn Rabee.”
He cried and said “This is Khadeeja’s necklace.”
As soon as the Messenger of Allah (PBUH) saw that necklace, he had a feeling of extreme compassion and his heart palpitated for the great memory. The Companions who were present there gazed in amazement having being captivated by the magnificence of the situation.
After a long silence, the Messenger of Allah sws stood up and said,
“O my people, this man is my in-law, should I release him? And do you accept the return of this necklace to my daughter?”
They answered in unison “Yes, O Messenger of Allah!”
The Prophet sws gave the necklace to Abu El’Ass and said to him,
“Tell Zainab not to give away Khadeeja’s necklace.” Then he sws said, “Abu El’Ass, Can we speak privately?”
He took him aside and said, “Allah has ordered me to separate between a Muslim and a disbeliever, so could you return my daughter to me?”
Abu El’Ass reluctantly agreed.
Zainab stood on the gates of Makkah waiting for the arrival of Abu El’Ass. When he finally came he said,
“I am going away”.
She asked, “Where to?”
He replied, “It is not me who is going, it is you. You are going to your father. We must separate because you are a Muslim.”
She implored him, “Will you become a Muslim and come with me?” But he refused.
So Zainab took her son and daughter and traveled to Madinah, and for 6 years she refused to remarry, hoping that one day Abu El’Ass would come.
After 6 years, Abu El’Ass was traveling in a caravan from Makkah to Syria. During the journey, he was intercepted by some of the Prophet’s companions. He escaped and asked for Zainab’s home. He knocked on her door shortly before the dawn prayer. She opened the door and asked him,
“Did you become a Muslim?”
He whispered “No, I come as a fugitive.”
She implored him once more “Can you become a Muslim?”
Again his answer was a negative.
“Do not worry.” She said, “Welcome my cousin, welcome, the father of Ali and Umaymah.”
After the Prophet sws prayed the dawn prayer in congregation with the people, they heard a voice from the back of the mosque,
“I have freed Abu El’Ass ibn Rabee.” Zainab had granted Abu El’Ass’ freedom.
The Prophet sws asked, “Have you heard what I heard?”
They all said, “Yes, Messenger of Allah.”
Zainab said, “He is my cousin and the father of my children and I have freed him.”
The Prophet sws stood up and said, “O people, I declare that this man was a very good son-in-law, he never broke his promise, and neither did he tell lies. So if you accept, I will return his money back and let him go. If you refuse it’s your decision and I will not blame you for it.”
The companions agreed, “We will give him his money.”
So the Prophet sws said to Zainab, “We have freed the one you have freed, O Zainab.”
Then he sws went to her and told her “be generous to him, he is your cousin and the father of your children, but don’t let him get near you, he is prohibited for you.”
She replied, “Sure, father, I’ll do as you say.”
She went in and told her husband, “O Abu El’Ass, didn’t you miss us at all? Won’t you become a Muslim and stay with us?”
But he refused. Abu El’Ass then took the money and returned to Makkah. Once he returned he stood up and announced,
“O people, here is your money. Is there anything left?”
They replied, “No, Abu El’Ass, there is nothing left, thanks a lot.”
So Abu El’Ass said, “I testify that there is no god but Allah, and Muhammed is His Messenger.”
Then he went back to Madinah and ran to the Prophet sws as he said, “Dear Prophet, you freed me yesterday, and today I say that I testify there is no god but Allah and you are His Messenger.”
He asked the Prophet, “Will you give me the permission to go back to Zainab?”
The Prophet sws smiled and said, “Come with me”;
he took him to Zainab’s house and knocked on her door. The Prophet sws said, “O Zainab, your cousin came to me and asked if he can return to you”.
Just like 20 years before, her face turned red with bashfulness and she smiled.
The sad thing was, a year after this incident, Zainab died. Abu El’Ass shed hot tears because of her death and drove those who were around him to tears. The Messenger of Allah sws came with eyes full of tears and a heart full of sorrow. Zainab’s death reminded him of the death of his wife, Khadeejah. He told the women, who gathered around Zainab’s corpse,
“Wash her three times and use camphor in the third wash.”
He performed funeral prayers on her and followed her final resting place. Abu El’Ass returned to his children, Ali and Umaymah. Kissing them and wetting them with his tears, he remembered the face of his departed darling.
May Allah be pleased with Zainab, the Prophet’s daughter! May He reward her with Paradise for her patience, endurance and struggle!
Abu El’Ass would cry so profusely that the people saw the Prophet himself weeping and calming him down. Abu El’Ass would say,
“By Allah, I can’t stand life anymore without Zainab.”
He died one year after Zainab’s death.
Friday, September 9, 2011
check up or CHECKMATE?
Sunday, September 4, 2011
Smile, And Everything Falls Into Place
I said to You: My sins are so many
You said: ‘And who can forgive sins except Allah?’ (3:135)
I said to You: Do not leave me
You said: ‘So remember Me; I will remember you…’ (2:152)
I said to You: I’m facing a lot of difficulties in life
You said: ‘And whoever fears Allah? He will m
There has come to you enlightenment from your Lord. So whoever will see does so for [the benefit of] his soul, and whoever is blind [does harm] against it. And [say], “I am not a guardian over you.” (6:104)
“This [Quran] is enlightenment for mankind and guidance and mercy for a people who are certain [in faith].” (45:20)
Saturday, September 3, 2011
#13

Sunday, August 21, 2011
Baju Kurung Terakhir- jahitan dari nya.
Lazimnya, ruang tamu itu luas terbentang sebelum ini.
Sesak nafas.
Payah betul untuk melangkah masuk ke pintu hadapan.
Kedengaran bacaan ayat-ayat suci Illahi, dari jauh lagi.
Dan di tengah-tengah kamar itu, terkulainya sekujur tubuh.
Sekujur tubuh yang tidak bernyawa lagi.
Di tepinya, kelihatan seorang kanak-kanak perempuan.
9 tahun. masih muda lagi.
Tangisan kecilnya menyentuh hati.
Abang di sebelahnya, 11 tahun barangkali.
Turut berkongsi kepedihan di hati.
Kakak-kakak pula mengelilingi tubuh yang diam tidak begerak itu.
Empat kakak semuanya.
Ada yang masih di bangku sekolah.
Ada yang sudah melanjutkan pelajaran di universiti.
Sayu.
Si suami masuk ke dalam kamar.
Menadah tangan untuk bacaan doa kepada isteri tersayang.
Sepatah-patah perkataan diukir dengan penuh khusyuk.
Makin lama doa dibaca, makin kuat tangisan hadirin yang menjadi pemerhati.
Tiga empat pelajar beruniform, datang hampir dengan jenazah.
Kemungkinan besar anak-anak yang arwah selalu hantar ke sekolah.
Arwah disayangi ramai.
Buktinya, rumah itu dibanjiri orang ramai.
Siapa sangka, perbualan curi yang aku dengar,
dari pakcik-pakcik di masjid subuh pagi itu,
sedang berbicara tentang pengurusan jenazah orang yang aku kenali.
Ajal itu, datangnya tanpa amaran,
tanpa penyebab yang gah,
Walaupun beberapa orang makcik di sudut kecil,
berbicara tentang penyebab kematiannya,
Tiada konklusi yang lebih tepat selain dari
"Ajalnya sudah tiba"
Al-Fatihah kepada Allahyarham Hajah Maksu Noraya.
Semoga keluarga terdekat tabah menghadapi kehilangan beliau pada bulan ramadhan mulia ini. Semoga Allahyarham ditempatkan bersama roh org2 yang beriman.
Untungnya allahyarham bertemu dengan kekasihnya, pada bulan penuh keberkatan ini.
Beberapa tahun akan datang,
Memori yang terselit di ruang minda ini,
Akan mekar sekiranya terlihat akan baju kurung terakhir yang dijahit oleh arwah.
maka terputuslah amalannya kecuali melalui tiga sumber;
sedekah jariah, ilmu yang dimanfaatkan dan anak soleh yang berdoa untuknya.
Saturday, August 13, 2011
#12
Wednesday, August 10, 2011
Someday, we'll know.
Sunday, August 7, 2011
'Mana ada lelaki melayu romantik macam tu'
Nowa,
Kakitangan Kajaan,
Putrajaya
TV3
Sri Pentas,
No 3, Persiaran Bandar Utama
Bandar Utama, 47800 Petaling Jaya
Tuan,
Per : Bantahan Terhadap Penyiaran Drama Bersiri Nora Elena
Adalah dengan hormatnya saya merujuk kepada perkara di atas dan drama bersiri Nora Elena adalah berkaitan.
2. Dimaklumkan, bahawa saya, Nowa dengan ini membantah penyiaran drama bersiri Nora Elena yang disiarkan setiap hari, jam 7 petang di saluran tuan. Antara sebab sebab pembantahan saya adalah seperti berikut.
i) Membuatkan jiwa isteri isteri terganggu.
Mana ada suami gitu sabo dalam dunia ini? Logik tak bila Nora tanya Seth, asal Seth tak penah dengan apa saja perbuatan Nora? Seth jawab, sebab Seth terlalu sayangkan Nora. Jadi kesimpulan, isteri-isteri mula curiga dengan suami mereka yang sepanjang masa marah marah. Ni laki aku sayang ke tak ni?
ii) Jiwa jiwa suami juga turut terganggu.
Ini kerana, apa bila tiba scene scene romantik dan tidak dapat diterima akal, seperti Nora terpeleot, Seth siap dukung bawak g sofa, tingkat bawah..(gila gagah..aritu aku nak branak, laki aku gendeng henbek aku, beg kain aku, pastu tunggu aku kat grill depan umah, aku la terkedek-kedek jalan sendiri..pastu pegang lengan aku je tau..bila suh dukung macam biasa drama atau filem buat, laki ckp, "ah gile mung, patoh pinggang!" Pastu sampai sepital, lari lari amik wilca..kalu dukung macam drama melayu kan bagus??)
Oh pasal part romantik tu, biasanya isteri akan menjeling kepada suami, disertai dengan kata kata sinis, "dedi mung ni masa dulu geletak nok ke mami, masa mami begetoh je belanar beli bunga, minyok wangi, cekelat bagai..leni doh dapat mami doh haghammmmmm!!! asal besday ke anniversary ke, pakai tektik, hadiah ai pada yu adalah sebuah cinta yang murni dan ikhlas"....itu je?? harharharharam!!
Paling koman, selepas jelingan tajam, cubitan kental di lemak perut pasti akan singgah di bahagian perut suami.
Jadi, sebagai lelaki melayu, suami, mereka juga merasa hangat dengan penyiaran drama bersiri ini.
Kebiasaan jugak, malam malam yang sepatutnya diisi dengan aktiviti sukan berair akan berlalu begitu saja, pabila sang isteri makan hati, lelaki melayu dalam drama lagi romantik dari laki sendiri. Saje saje wat merajuk, ingatkan si laki pujuk cam si Seth pujuk Nora, tapi tak tau laki sendiri penat, dah, amik kau, sampai ke pagi tak dapat apa apa..laki tak pujuk satu hal, laki horny dibuat bini gitu pun satu hal..Sian Johnny!
iii) Memberi harapan pelesu kepada gadis gadis yang belum menikah.
Apabila pengaruh Seth Tan mula menular, maka ramai gadis gadis mencari pasangan hidup yang romantik nak mampus macam Seth Tan. Selepas menonton siri itu juga, kajian secara rambang mendapati kebanyakan dahi gadis gadis lebam. Ini adalah berikutan dengan tabiat sebelum tido mereka yang gemar meletakkan belakang tapak tangan ke dahi sebelum tido sambil berangankan lelaki seromantik Seth Tan, walau sebenarnya, Non Ada lelaki MELAYU seromantik itu. Yang romantik cumalah, lelaki Bangladesh, lelaki Lombok, dan Shahrukh Khan sahaja.
iv) Pasangan-pasangan bercinta kerap bergaduh.
Sang aweks memaksa jejaka untuk kerap membelikan bunga. Sedangkan boipren tu keja Kerani je kat Kementerian Kewangan. Gaji pun RM1500 jek. Kau gile sekuntum bunga brape hengget?? Kalu nak 3 kuntum sebulan, takpe jugak. Ni nak 21 roses everiday??
Kau gile, ko nak mamoh kelopak bunga ke? Kau ingat kau cantik macam Nora Elena nak demand-demand? cess
v) Tak logik punya citer..
Brape lama kawen baru bole 'bersama'?? Ada ke lelaki sesabar Seth tu.. Ok, takde ke tunjuk scene Seth 'tumbuk sambal'?? eh, kalu betol ada lelaki tak penah sentuh isteri, kira mesti dia 'tumbuk sambal' kan? hahahha...takut awak sakit belakang konon..padahal ajak tido skali..mood cameron suda mari..eh, tetiba teringat Jay....kahkahkahakha
vi ) kari hangus, nasik hangit.
Duk sibuk berkejar dari dapur ke hall, pastu ke dapur semula, pastu part ehem ehem, part ada pelangi, dah teralit, tengok sambil berangan, jeling laki, dah lupa kari kat dapur..hangit gitu je..
vii) Mengganggu tumbesaran anak kecil.
Pabila seorang isteri, terpengaruh dengan apa yang dilihat di kaca telebisi, nak perli secara derek kepada laki sendiri takut kena penampo, jadi, anak kecil dijadikan medium untuk menyampaikan isi hati
"tengok tu Alya, dulu dedi mung semart gitu ah, nok g dating siap bukak pintu bagai sume? leni? mami terkedek kedek bawok barang dia hon siap siap doh"
"owoh Alya ork? napok ngat nipu..mana ada orang kawen doh romantik gitu ork??"
Kesian la budak kecit tu terkebil kebil tak tau ape mak dia bebelkan.
3. Sekian dimajukan untuk pertimbangan dan kelulusan pihak tuan. Dan semoga dengan ini, tiada lagi kekeliruan dan kecelaruan minda penonton penonton lagi. Mana ada lelaki romantik gitu dalam dunia..kalu ada pun sebelum kawen, lepas kawen, bagi setahun, atau dah dapat anak sorang, jadi kayu la semuanya..Jadi, dimohon pihak tuan agar tidak mempermainkan perasaan kami, dan memberi harapan pelesu kepada gadis gadis diluar sana.
Sekian,
"BERPIJAK DIDUNIA NYATA ADALAH TUNGGAK KEHIDUPAN BAHAGIA"
( NOWA)
Pengerusi,
Kelab Ibu-Ibu Menyusu Badan
Putrajaya
Thursday, August 4, 2011
#10
Sunday, July 31, 2011
Nur
Friday, July 29, 2011
#9
That’s why in loving Allah, really, the love is a one of the greatest rewards. :) |
#8
Monday, July 25, 2011
tangled; no more :)
Saturday, July 16, 2011
#7
Dan sungguh, yang kemudian itu lebih baik bagimu dari yang permulaan.
Dan sungguh, kelak Tuhanmu pasti memberikan karunia-Nya kepadamu, sehingga engkau menjadi puas
Ad- Dhuha, ayat 4&5
Surah yang menjadi bukti kasih sayang Allah terhadap Rasulullah tatkala baginda sangat sedih kerana kaum Quraisy mengutuk baginda ketika penurunan wahyu baginda terhenti buat seketika. Mereka mengatakan, Allah sudah melupakan baginda.
Tiada yang dapat memujuk hati ini, selain daripada meneliti setiap kalimah Allah.
Jazakumullah khairan kepada mereka yang berkongsi tadabbur surah ini. :)
Wednesday, July 13, 2011
kelapa sawit.
":("
ok, risau. sgt.
terus call, and she said.
"takde pape pon. saje je. boring. Kakhur cepat balik malaysia. Jemput Najah from ladang kelapa sawit ni".
"kenapa plak ni? boring sgt ke kmb?" I said
then she replied;
"ala. semua org mcm robot"
haha. reminds me when i first masuk mrsm muar. yup. it was like hostel all over again. and seriously, who likes routine life. definitely not me.
Hang in there Najah, baru 3 minggu duduk sana. You'll get used to it lama2. Once you find something interesting to do , you'll be enjoying your stay there. well, at least kmb is not that boring. haha. Oh, and happy doing all the assignments. 2 years is not that long kannn. :P Besides, you have lots of fun fun friends over there kan.
p/s: don't worry, once i'm home we'll have some fun insyaAllah.
detoxification and always summertime.
duh. caffeine. that explains the vomitting pagi exam, and right before exam. DUH!!
NO CAFFEINE, NO CAFFEINE, NO CAFFEINE.
arrggh, the urge, the temptation.
p/s: approximately 3 months w/out caffeine. *ok, tipu. last month costa coffee kan* fighting HUR!
In my mind
Until I remember
Life can't be revised
Monday, July 11, 2011
Saturday, July 9, 2011
The best feeling in the world is to be millions of miles away and still be able to picture your eyes.
1. solat jemaah dgn mama dgn abah.
2. buka puasa dgn family.
3. tarawih sama2 dgn makcik2.
4. gurau2 dgn the girls.
5. makan timun abah tanam
6. pengat durian mama.
7. buat kerepek pisang
8. buat cupcakes.
9. potong rumput *LOL*
10. lepak kat kebun, kolam ikan.
kampung girl, wants her kampung. and all she has to do is study extra hard, then she'll get her rewards insyaAllah :)
"don't you buat that muka hur. mama tau apa ekspresi muka hur sekarang. ingt mama tak nampak."
*haha. you really know me well mama. i cant hide it walaupun through phone :)*



