#15

and no one in this world afford to do this to you.

except for Allah.

only Him. :)

emotion

what's the hardest part of being a doctor?

people thought that being a doctor, means you must be brave enough. brave enough to watch the endless river of blood, brave enough to cut someone's body, brave enough to look at all the unimaginable injuries, etc.

i have certain people telling me this too. i admit, i was scared, a little bit. but then, when i was in 2nd year, i went for my posting in a forensic department. i dare to say, it was not that scary at all. though, i did have some difficulties to close my eyes after my first day in forensic unit. after a few days, it was nothing. in fact, i did enjoy it immensely. dealing with the dead is, easier. practically, because we don't really deal with them at all. of course, forensic is not something to be taken lightly though. we're basically talking about medico-legal and stuff related to it.

therefore, being a doctor is not scary. *or maybe, the worst is yet to come* :P

i'm in my clinical years now. and that's when i realised, the hardest part of being a doctor, *at least for me* is to deal with my own emotion.

last week, as i did my patient history alone *since Dr Iman just love to leave each of us alone with a patient*, one patient thought i was a doctor. she wanted me to look at her files, and asked me, is she getting any better. i did browsed over her files, it seems that, her condition is improving. i didn't dare to say anything, so i just said, it seems ok, as she is doing her chemotherapy after all.

she seems happy with my answer, when suddenly she asked me will she'll get better as before or not.

i know, from what our doctors told us before. since we are now in haematology unit, most cases we're dealing with is leukemia. the doctors themselves, didn't tell the patients how serious the conditions are for them. in reality, once you are diagnosed with leukemia, you haven't left much time to live. especially here, in egypt.

looking at this patient's glowing eyes, desperately hoping for a miracle answer from me, i was numb for just about seconds. i really don't know what to say, so i said, you have to ask your own doctor. i am just a student. and she asked, what's my opinion. i couldn't answer. i just said "syafakillah, insyaAllah".

being in a haematology unit, you'll find that most of the leukemic patients, are young adolescents in their 20's. there are a few middle-aged patients, and this varies according to the type of leukemia.

and masyaAllah, in my opinion, leukemic patients are very beautiful and handsome indeed. their eyes seem bigger. they have radiant looking skin *it's pale actually, but a beautiful pale skin*. and if a young egyptian man is bald, they do look handsome, no kidding. * most of us agree with this* :P

my heart sinks when the doctors have very little hope for these patients. i wont call my feeling towards them is sympathy, but empathy. yes. my problem is, i am too understanding. as if i feel their pain. as i, myself is facing what they are facing. in reality, their pain is actually beyond my imagination.

i saw a male patient helplessly depending on his wife, for he is very sick. seeing his wife's worried eyes, i did for a moment, thought of my parents.

i saw the young leukemic patients, and i thought of my friend back in malaysia, who'd lost her best friend because of leukemia too.

therefore yes, the hardest part of being a doctor is to deal with your own emotion * i know, most of the guys wont face this kind of problem*

emotion shouldn't be a barrier for us to move forward. allah gives me this feeling for a reason. somehow, i know, insyaAllah, there is a good reason for it's existence. it's just that i have to figure out how to deal with it.

mama told me, "how can you face a patient, if you can't face your own emotions. How can you help them, if you're in such condition?".

she's right. *always*.

Empathy won't help to cure them. Allah will. have strong faith in Allah, that Allah will cure them, through our efforts in treating the patients, insyaAllah.

i understand now, that these 6 years of medical school, is not just to gain medical knowledge and such. It's the values and character building that will really help us in our career later on.

:))

Jika Allah uruskan urusan kita..dan Allah tidak serahkan diri kita kepada kita walaupun sekelip mata..

dunia boleh berbuat apa apa ..

tetapi mereka tidak boleh mencabar kebesaran kerajaan Allah..

Jika Allah mengatur untuk kita apa yang orang sangka tewas..

Kita akan melihat kemenangan dari sisi Allah S.W.T ...

Apa yang orang rasa rugi..

Allah akan memberikan keuntungan yang mana..jalan jalan manusia tidak sangka..

tetapi Allah boleh mewujudkan keajaiban dalam kehidupan..

Lihatlah bagaimana Allah membahagi-bahagikan nikmatNya

- Hamka -

Que Sera Sera.

They asked me, what i want to be when i grow up.

i cant think of anything else. nothing else. nada. except for one thing.

ربي يسر ولا تعسر ,ربي تمم بالخير

InsyaAllah, may we all make it till the end. And pray that Allah bless us in anything that we do. Amin. :)

secret

There is a light that shows me the way,

To a secret garden, with a fragrant bouquet,

And as I enter through its welcoming gates,

To savor all that for me awaits -

I can't help but wonder why the light chose me

Why fate gave me the Garden's key.

For whatever the reason, this much I know,

It is a lovely place where I love to go -

A garden full of life's delights -

Of tenderness and wondrous nights.

A garden in which to nourish my soul;

A place to go to make me whole

Where the warming light becons me stay

Where always it is Valentine's Day.

Time has shown me this simple truth,

That the light that shines from high above -

That leads me to this garden each day

Is the nurturing light of your infinite love.

_______________________________

Poem Recited by Ara John Movsesian

49

very, very, very depressing.

oh well,

moving on.........................

ok.terus dah tak depress. heeeee.

:p

secara pokoknya.

one of the best vid from 15 Malaysia that i watched few years ago. Tok Guru speaking of agriculture.

bayangkan dari sebatang pokok yang kita tanam, berapa banyak pahala yg kita boleh dapat. hatta, bila penanam pokok itu meninggal dunia pun, pahala nya akan ditambah berterusan, sekiranya pokok itu masih lagi hidup, dan memberi manfaat kepada sekalian makhluk di bumi. it's one of the easiest way of gaining pahala selain daripada mengajar ilmu bermanfaat kepada orang lain.

InsyaAllah, i wish, this tradition of our family, yang diamalkan oleh kedua2 nenek moyang abah & mama akan diteruskan sehingga generasi yang terakhir sekali nanti. Amin.

and i need to do more than just tolong abah letak baja dan tanam benih je. :P

#14- Zainab&Abu El'Ass

This is the real love story between Zainab bint Muhammad and Abu El’Ass ibn Rabee’ [ra]; Zainab was the daughter of the Prophet sws and her cousin Abu El’Ass, was Khadeeja [ra]’s nephew. He was one of the nobles of the Quraish, and the Prophet sws loved him very much.

One day Abu El’Ass went to the Prophet sws before he had received his mission of Prophethood and said:

“I want to marry your eldest daughter.”

So the Prophet replied: “I must ask her first.”

He sws went to Zainab and asked her: “Your cousin came to me and he wishes to marry you, do you accept him as your husband?”

Her face turned red with bashfulness and she smiled.

So Zainab married Abu El’Ass, the beginning of a great love story. They had two children; Ali and Umaymah.

During this course of time Muhammad became a Prophet while Abu El’Ass was away from Makkah. Abu El’Ass returned to find his wife a Muslim. When he first came back, his wife said,

“I have great news for you”.

He stood up and left her. Zainab was surprised and followed him as she said,

“My father became a Prophet and I have become a Muslim.”

He replied, “Why didn’t you tell me first?”

Hence a big problem began between the two; a problem of religion and belief.

She told him, “I wasn’t going to disbelieve in my father and his message, he is not a liar, and he is “The Honest and Trustworthy” [Al-Siddiq wal Ameen]. I’m not the only believer; my mother and my sisters became Muslims, my cousin Ali ibn Abi Talib became a Muslim, your cousin Uthman ibn Affan became a Muslim, and your friend, Abu Bakr, became a Muslim.”

He replied, “Well, as for me, I don’t want people to say, ‘he let down his people and his forefathers to please his wife’. And I am not accusing your father of anything.”

Then he said, “So will you excuse me and understand?”

She replied, “Who will excuse and understand you if I don’t? I will stay beside you and help you until you reach the truth.”

And she kept her word for 20 years.

Abu El’Ass remained an unbeliever, and then came the migration. Zainab went to her father and asked him for the permission to stay with her husband. The Prophet sws replied,

“Stay with your husband and children”.

So Zainab stayed in Makkah, until the battle of Badr occurred. Abu El’Ass was to fight in the army of Quraish against the Muslims. For Zainab, it meant that her husband will be fighting her father, a time Zainab had always feared. She kept crying out:

“O Allah, I fear one day the sun may rise and my children become orphans or I lose my father”.

So the battle started, and ended in victory for the Muslims. Abu El’Ass was captured by the Muslims, and news of this reached Makkah. Zainab asked,

“What did my father do?”

They told her, “The Muslims won”.

So she prayed to Allah, thanking Him. Then she asked: “What did my husband do?”

They said: “He was captured.”

She said, “I’ll send a payment to release him.”

She didn’t own anything of much value, so she took off her mother’s necklace, and sent it with Abu El’Ass’s brother to the Prophet.

While the Prophet sws was sitting, taking payments and releasing captives, he saw Khadeeja’s necklace. He held it up and asked:

“Whose payment is this?”

They said: “Abu El’Ass ibn Rabee.”

He cried and said “This is Khadeeja’s necklace.”

As soon as the Messenger of Allah (PBUH) saw that necklace, he had a feeling of extreme compassion and his heart palpitated for the great memory. The Companions who were present there gazed in amazement having being captivated by the magnificence of the situation.

After a long silence, the Messenger of Allah sws stood up and said,

“O my people, this man is my in-law, should I release him? And do you accept the return of this necklace to my daughter?”

They answered in unison “Yes, O Messenger of Allah!”

The Prophet sws gave the necklace to Abu El’Ass and said to him,

“Tell Zainab not to give away Khadeeja’s necklace.” Then he sws said, “Abu El’Ass, Can we speak privately?”

He took him aside and said, “Allah has ordered me to separate between a Muslim and a disbeliever, so could you return my daughter to me?”

Abu El’Ass reluctantly agreed.

Zainab stood on the gates of Makkah waiting for the arrival of Abu El’Ass. When he finally came he said,

“I am going away”.

She asked, “Where to?”

He replied, “It is not me who is going, it is you. You are going to your father. We must separate because you are a Muslim.”

She implored him, “Will you become a Muslim and come with me?” But he refused.

So Zainab took her son and daughter and traveled to Madinah, and for 6 years she refused to remarry, hoping that one day Abu El’Ass would come.

After 6 years, Abu El’Ass was traveling in a caravan from Makkah to Syria. During the journey, he was intercepted by some of the Prophet’s companions. He escaped and asked for Zainab’s home. He knocked on her door shortly before the dawn prayer. She opened the door and asked him,

“Did you become a Muslim?”

He whispered “No, I come as a fugitive.”

She implored him once more “Can you become a Muslim?”

Again his answer was a negative.

“Do not worry.” She said, “Welcome my cousin, welcome, the father of Ali and Umaymah.”

After the Prophet sws prayed the dawn prayer in congregation with the people, they heard a voice from the back of the mosque,

“I have freed Abu El’Ass ibn Rabee.” Zainab had granted Abu El’Ass’ freedom.

The Prophet sws asked, “Have you heard what I heard?”

They all said, “Yes, Messenger of Allah.”

Zainab said, “He is my cousin and the father of my children and I have freed him.”

The Prophet sws stood up and said, “O people, I declare that this man was a very good son-in-law, he never broke his promise, and neither did he tell lies. So if you accept, I will return his money back and let him go. If you refuse it’s your decision and I will not blame you for it.”

The companions agreed, “We will give him his money.”

So the Prophet sws said to Zainab, “We have freed the one you have freed, O Zainab.”

Then he sws went to her and told her “be generous to him, he is your cousin and the father of your children, but don’t let him get near you, he is prohibited for you.”

She replied, “Sure, father, I’ll do as you say.”

She went in and told her husband, “O Abu El’Ass, didn’t you miss us at all? Won’t you become a Muslim and stay with us?”

But he refused. Abu El’Ass then took the money and returned to Makkah. Once he returned he stood up and announced,

“O people, here is your money. Is there anything left?”

They replied, “No, Abu El’Ass, there is nothing left, thanks a lot.”

So Abu El’Ass said, “I testify that there is no god but Allah, and Muhammed is His Messenger.”

Then he went back to Madinah and ran to the Prophet sws as he said, “Dear Prophet, you freed me yesterday, and today I say that I testify there is no god but Allah and you are His Messenger.”

He asked the Prophet, “Will you give me the permission to go back to Zainab?”

The Prophet sws smiled and said, “Come with me”;

he took him to Zainab’s house and knocked on her door. The Prophet sws said, “O Zainab, your cousin came to me and asked if he can return to you”.

Just like 20 years before, her face turned red with bashfulness and she smiled.

The sad thing was, a year after this incident, Zainab died. Abu El’Ass shed hot tears because of her death and drove those who were around him to tears. The Messenger of Allah sws came with eyes full of tears and a heart full of sorrow. Zainab’s death reminded him of the death of his wife, Khadeejah. He told the women, who gathered around Zainab’s corpse,

“Wash her three times and use camphor in the third wash.”

He performed funeral prayers on her and followed her final resting place. Abu El’Ass returned to his children, Ali and Umaymah. Kissing them and wetting them with his tears, he remembered the face of his departed darling.

May Allah be pleased with Zainab, the Prophet’s daughter! May He reward her with Paradise for her patience, endurance and struggle!

Abu El’Ass would cry so profusely that the people saw the Prophet himself weeping and calming him down. Abu El’Ass would say,

“By Allah, I can’t stand life anymore without Zainab.”

He died one year after Zainab’s death.

check up or CHECKMATE?

" jom pegi buat medical check up la hur. i think it's something to do with your lungs la. It's getting worse".

"mama ni, you're the one with the big lump on your shoulder. mama yg patut buat checkup"

"mama dah tua. kamu tu muda lagi"

"mama pegi la check up dulu. x brani kan..... "

it seems that the idea of meeting a doctor for medical check-up is scary indeed.

for some people, what they afraid most is about getting injection. mcm org2 tua cakap,

"tak nak den dho. sakit bilo dokto cucuk".

i think it's just a mere excuse given by them.

what we actually fear most is TO HEAR THE TRUTH, from the doctors themselves.

"pakcik, pakcik disahkan menghidap kanser. ermm, sakit barah. stage 3. kemungkinan ada masa dalam setahun dua je lagi"

takut kan? takut kan?

ok. i think cancer is a little bit overrated.

what about the common health problems?

for example; diabetes, heart diseases, hypertension.. etc.

i remember when some of my relatives came to our house. since my father have this glucose meter *to monitor his blood sugar level from time to time*, most of my aunties and uncles thought of checking their glucose level.

"normal tak gulo den ni, hur? berdebar la plak nak tunggu result eh."

"mcm tinggi sikit la ni....................."

"hah?!"

"tapi biasa la, baru lepas makan kan."

"fuhhh.." *menarik nafas kelegaan*

a few days ago, when my wan had a fever,

she asked me to check her pulse.

and she was like,

"ok tak jantung wan ni? jangan la cakap tak ok. wan takut ni"

"nadi wan normal je. tapi jantung tu hur tak tau la. kene cek doktor betul. hur ni tak abis belajar lagi"

and i know, the chances are, she won't see a real doctor. not just yet.

for some, waiting the result is like your heart been ripped slowly.

if the result turns well, then it's ok.

if not, your heart will tear down in pieces.

you probably won't die for the disease that you've been recently diagnosed to,

but heart attack from knowing it will be likely to kill you, on the spot.

but as scary as it is,

the fact is many of diseases screened can be treated, if detected early.

yeah, everyone knows that. but really, how many of us are brave enough to handle the truth.

i know that most of the makciks' & pakciks', wan2 and atok2 in kampung can't.

even the youngsters, probably because they are so busy with work and stuff,

they dont have the time to think of their own health.

with all the stress and the food that we eat.

and next thing you know, when all the signs and symptoms started to appear, it was too late.

that explains the uprising number of death of young people in their 30's due to heart attack.

men mostly. those who were not yet married, or recently married, or just having their eldest child. sad indeed.

and really, was it just me, or really the number of breast cancer cases tremendously increase within these few years.

cervix cancer, not to mention all kind of cysts with different kinds of shapes and sizes appearing in variety of organs.

yeah, scary indeed. especially when those who are closely related to us already been diagnosed with certain genetic related diseases.

it kinda hits us, "bila plak time aku ni?"

in the other hand, it's true that our ajal&maut is already written, and when our time comes, there's nothing that we can do.

but we also know that, apa-apa pun, kita kena usaha dulu,

baru tawakkal.

and in my humble opinion, medical check up, is probably a way of our usaha, to keep our body healthy. especially, when we started to realise that there is something unusual about our body.

and come on la, it's not that expensive. with all the subsidy given by our government.

it's not that it has to be done oftenly.

after all, taking care of our health, is a very important ibadah indeed.

amanah dari Allah yang dipertanggungjawabkan ke atas kita.

wallahualam.

what we don't know, won't hurt us.

but i think what we don't know will only hurt us more, in addition to that,

it will also hurt those around us.

and by that, i know, there's nothing else that hurts me more,

than seeing my loved ones to be hurt.

besides, how long can we actually hide the truth? because eventually, the truth will come to light. bright light that is. :P

as strange as it is, there is also cases of munchausen syndrome. which is totally opposite of iatrophobia *fear of seeing a doctor*

p/s: i'm not afraid of check-up, is just that i know, it's nothing much. mama is always a little bit worried. that's all. maybe we, doctors-to-be need to be a little bit convinced to the patients. try to encourage the public that there's nothing to be afraid of medical check-up.

but then again, cakap mmg senang :p

Smile, And Everything Falls Into Place

"Raya ni, ramai betul ada macam-macam masalah ye",

True. And i smile listening to such statement.

It seems that too much "inside" information can only cause me to just smile.

No specific meaning.

Not a sarcastic smile.

Just drawing a simple curve line on my lips.

A sincere smile surfacing from deepest portion of my heart.

Somehow, it's a bliss.

Probably, in disguise.

And in such cases, the power of doa comes into place

A deep prayer, with a smile :)

I said to You: My sins are so many

You said: ‘And who can forgive sins except Allah?’ (3:135)

I said to You: Do not leave me

You said: ‘So remember Me; I will remember you…’ (2:152)

I said to You: I’m facing a lot of difficulties in life

You said: ‘And whoever fears Allah? He will m

ake for him a way out’ (65:2)

I said to You: I have many dreams that I want to come true

You said: ‘Call upon Me; I will respond to you.’ (40:60)

There has come to you enlightenment from your Lord. So whoever will see does so for [the benefit of] his soul, and whoever is blind [does harm] against it. And [say], “I am not a guardian over you.” (6:104)

“This [Quran] is enlightenment for mankind and guidance and mercy for a people who are certain [in faith].” (45:20)

#13

“Alice in wonderland syndrome. Its a disease. It is like looking through the wrong end of a pair of binoculars. As if you are living in a fantasy world of a fable. A curious yet sad syndrome. I must be a victim of this syndrome. If that’s not the case, then why in the world, all the moments with this so ordinary girl.. become a fairytale?”

Baju Kurung Terakhir- jahitan dari nya.

Kamar ruang tamu itu dipenuhi ramai manusia.
Lazimnya, ruang tamu itu luas terbentang sebelum ini.
Sesak nafas.
Payah betul untuk melangkah masuk ke pintu hadapan.
Kedengaran bacaan ayat-ayat suci Illahi, dari jauh lagi.
Dan di tengah-tengah kamar itu, terkulainya sekujur tubuh.
Sekujur tubuh yang tidak bernyawa lagi.
Di tepinya, kelihatan seorang kanak-kanak perempuan.
9 tahun. masih muda lagi.
Tangisan kecilnya menyentuh hati.
Abang di sebelahnya, 11 tahun barangkali.
Turut berkongsi kepedihan di hati.
Kakak-kakak pula mengelilingi tubuh yang diam tidak begerak itu.
Empat kakak semuanya.
Ada yang masih di bangku sekolah.
Ada yang sudah melanjutkan pelajaran di universiti.
Sayu.

Si suami masuk ke dalam kamar.
Menadah tangan untuk bacaan doa kepada isteri tersayang.
Sepatah-patah perkataan diukir dengan penuh khusyuk.
Makin lama doa dibaca, makin kuat tangisan hadirin yang menjadi pemerhati.

Tiga empat pelajar beruniform, datang hampir dengan jenazah.
Kemungkinan besar anak-anak yang arwah selalu hantar ke sekolah.
Arwah disayangi ramai.
Buktinya, rumah itu dibanjiri orang ramai.

Siapa sangka, perbualan curi yang aku dengar,
dari pakcik-pakcik di masjid subuh pagi itu,
sedang berbicara tentang pengurusan jenazah orang yang aku kenali.

Ajal itu, datangnya tanpa amaran,
tanpa penyebab yang gah,
Walaupun beberapa orang makcik di sudut kecil,
berbicara tentang penyebab kematiannya,
Tiada konklusi yang lebih tepat selain dari
"Ajalnya sudah tiba"

Al-Fatihah kepada Allahyarham Hajah Maksu Noraya.
Semoga keluarga terdekat tabah menghadapi kehilangan beliau pada bulan ramadhan mulia ini. Semoga Allahyarham ditempatkan bersama roh org2 yang beriman.
Untungnya allahyarham bertemu dengan kekasihnya, pada bulan penuh keberkatan ini.

Beberapa tahun akan datang,
Memori yang terselit di ruang minda ini,
Akan mekar sekiranya terlihat akan baju kurung terakhir yang dijahit oleh arwah.

Apabila seorang anak Adam meninggal dunia,
maka terputuslah amalannya kecuali melalui tiga sumber;
sedekah jariah, ilmu yang dimanfaatkan dan anak soleh yang berdoa untuknya.

p/s: teringat perbualan bersama salah seorang rakan apabila baru kehilangan abahnya yang tersayang, "Siasat lah macam mana punca kematian, tapi kalau ajal dah sampai, apa yang kita boleh buat ialah redha dgn kehendak-Nya, dan doakan semua urusan jenazah selamat sampai kesudahnya. Urusan mereka sudah selesai. Kita yang masih hidup, kesudahannya pula bagaimana?"

#12

Allah (swt) doesn’t want us to despise ourselves. He wants us to feel regret in disobeying Him, to turn back to Him seeking His forgiveness, to have the determination not to do it again, and if other people were harmed then to return their rights. These are the conditions of tawbah as outlined by Imam Nawawi in Riyadh al-Saliheen. The initial feeling of regret and guilt is simply the key to the whole process. One should not get stuck staring at the key, but use it to unlock the door of seeking forgiveness, and open the door with the determination of not going back, in order to walk into the room of redemption, the room of getting closer to Allah (swt) by returning to Him. It is hope in His Mercy that drives this process and moves a person from simply focusing on the key of regret to actually using it to propel oneself closer to Allah (swt).

courtesy of;

http://www.suhaibwebb.com/personaldvlpt/purification-heart/30-reasons-for-redemption-and-elevation-not-despair/

Someday, we'll know.

Someday we'll know

If love can move a mountain

Someday we'll know

Why the sky is blue

Someday we'll know

Why I wasn't meant for you

spending these 10 days of ramadhan with you girls had never been sweeter.

thanks for the juadah iftar and many more.

i'll be missing you, but then, we have 3 more years to kill together insyaAllah.

let's make it sweeter, while we still have the time.

and sekarang kene kumpul tenaga for pembuatan rendang, kuih raya, muffins, cupcakes, potong rumput, bakar sampah etc....

semua dah tunggu dah.

i'm sure org malaysia dah rindu sangat dah ni :)

#11

you are, what you eat.

'Mana ada lelaki melayu romantik macam tu'

Nowa,
Kakitangan Kajaan,
Putrajaya

TV3
Sri Pentas,
No 3, Persiaran Bandar Utama
Bandar Utama, 47800 Petaling Jaya

Tuan,
Per : Bantahan Terhadap Penyiaran Drama Bersiri Nora Elena

Adalah dengan hormatnya saya merujuk kepada perkara di atas dan drama bersiri Nora Elena adalah berkaitan.

2. Dimaklumkan, bahawa saya, Nowa dengan ini membantah penyiaran drama bersiri Nora Elena yang disiarkan setiap hari, jam 7 petang di saluran tuan. Antara sebab sebab pembantahan saya adalah seperti berikut.

i) Membuatkan jiwa isteri isteri terganggu.
Mana ada suami gitu sabo dalam dunia ini? Logik tak bila Nora tanya Seth, asal Seth tak penah dengan apa saja perbuatan Nora? Seth jawab, sebab Seth terlalu sayangkan Nora. Jadi kesimpulan, isteri-isteri mula curiga dengan suami mereka yang sepanjang masa marah marah. Ni laki aku sayang ke tak ni?

ii) Jiwa jiwa suami juga turut terganggu.
Ini kerana, apa bila tiba scene scene romantik dan tidak dapat diterima akal, seperti Nora terpeleot, Seth siap dukung bawak g sofa, tingkat bawah..(gila gagah..aritu aku nak branak, laki aku gendeng henbek aku, beg kain aku, pastu tunggu aku kat grill depan umah, aku la terkedek-kedek jalan sendiri..pastu pegang lengan aku je tau..bila suh dukung macam biasa drama atau filem buat, laki ckp, "ah gile mung, patoh pinggang!" Pastu sampai sepital, lari lari amik wilca..kalu dukung macam drama melayu kan bagus??)

Oh pasal part romantik tu, biasanya isteri akan menjeling kepada suami, disertai dengan kata kata sinis, "dedi mung ni masa dulu geletak nok ke mami, masa mami begetoh je belanar beli bunga, minyok wangi, cekelat bagai..leni doh dapat mami doh haghammmmmm!!! asal besday ke anniversary ke, pakai tektik, hadiah ai pada yu adalah sebuah cinta yang murni dan ikhlas"....itu je?? harharharharam!!

Paling koman, selepas jelingan tajam, cubitan kental di lemak perut pasti akan singgah di bahagian perut suami.

Jadi, sebagai lelaki melayu, suami, mereka juga merasa hangat dengan penyiaran drama bersiri ini.

Kebiasaan jugak, malam malam yang sepatutnya diisi dengan aktiviti sukan berair akan berlalu begitu saja, pabila sang isteri makan hati, lelaki melayu dalam drama lagi romantik dari laki sendiri. Saje saje wat merajuk, ingatkan si laki pujuk cam si Seth pujuk Nora, tapi tak tau laki sendiri penat, dah, amik kau, sampai ke pagi tak dapat apa apa..laki tak pujuk satu hal, laki horny dibuat bini gitu pun satu hal..Sian Johnny!

iii) Memberi harapan pelesu kepada gadis gadis yang belum menikah.
Apabila pengaruh Seth Tan mula menular, maka ramai gadis gadis mencari pasangan hidup yang romantik nak mampus macam Seth Tan. Selepas menonton siri itu juga, kajian secara rambang mendapati kebanyakan dahi gadis gadis lebam. Ini adalah berikutan dengan tabiat sebelum tido mereka yang gemar meletakkan belakang tapak tangan ke dahi sebelum tido sambil berangankan lelaki seromantik Seth Tan, walau sebenarnya, Non Ada lelaki MELAYU seromantik itu. Yang romantik cumalah, lelaki Bangladesh, lelaki Lombok, dan Shahrukh Khan sahaja.

iv) Pasangan-pasangan bercinta kerap bergaduh.
Sang aweks memaksa jejaka untuk kerap membelikan bunga. Sedangkan boipren tu keja Kerani je kat Kementerian Kewangan. Gaji pun RM1500 jek. Kau gile sekuntum bunga brape hengget?? Kalu nak 3 kuntum sebulan, takpe jugak. Ni nak 21 roses everiday??

Kau gile, ko nak mamoh kelopak bunga ke? Kau ingat kau cantik macam Nora Elena nak demand-demand? cess

v) Tak logik punya citer..
Brape lama kawen baru bole 'bersama'?? Ada ke lelaki sesabar Seth tu.. Ok, takde ke tunjuk scene Seth 'tumbuk sambal'?? eh, kalu betol ada lelaki tak penah sentuh isteri, kira mesti dia 'tumbuk sambal' kan? hahahha...takut awak sakit belakang konon..padahal ajak tido skali..mood cameron suda mari..eh, tetiba teringat Jay....kahkahkahakha

vi ) kari hangus, nasik hangit.
Duk sibuk berkejar dari dapur ke hall, pastu ke dapur semula, pastu part ehem ehem, part ada pelangi, dah teralit, tengok sambil berangan, jeling laki, dah lupa kari kat dapur..hangit gitu je..

vii) Mengganggu tumbesaran anak kecil.
Pabila seorang isteri, terpengaruh dengan apa yang dilihat di kaca telebisi, nak perli secara derek kepada laki sendiri takut kena penampo, jadi, anak kecil dijadikan medium untuk menyampaikan isi hati

"tengok tu Alya, dulu dedi mung semart gitu ah, nok g dating siap bukak pintu bagai sume? leni? mami terkedek kedek bawok barang dia hon siap siap doh"

"owoh Alya ork? napok ngat nipu..mana ada orang kawen doh romantik gitu ork??"

Kesian la budak kecit tu terkebil kebil tak tau ape mak dia bebelkan.

3. Sekian dimajukan untuk pertimbangan dan kelulusan pihak tuan. Dan semoga dengan ini, tiada lagi kekeliruan dan kecelaruan minda penonton penonton lagi. Mana ada lelaki romantik gitu dalam dunia..kalu ada pun sebelum kawen, lepas kawen, bagi setahun, atau dah dapat anak sorang, jadi kayu la semuanya..Jadi, dimohon pihak tuan agar tidak mempermainkan perasaan kami, dan memberi harapan pelesu kepada gadis gadis diluar sana.

Sekian,

"BERPIJAK DIDUNIA NYATA ADALAH TUNGGAK KEHIDUPAN BAHAGIA"

( NOWA)
Pengerusi,
Kelab Ibu-Ibu Menyusu Badan
Putrajaya

gelak guling2 skejap. macam2 la diorang ni. btw, penulis ni tak hantar kat tv3 pun. dia saja je buat lawak dekat blog dia. :P

original post

http://www.gua.com.my/hiburan/berita-

hangat/Bantahan_Terhadap_Penyiaran_Nora_Elena.html

#10

“I’m gonna find a cure for Alzheimer’s (…)Today I watched Meredith perform an emergency craniotomy by herslef. She was perfect. She’s got her mother’s talent. She’s got her mother’s looks, Richard. What if she has her mother’s disease? Ellis was young when it started. Every time Meredith forgets her keys or asks what day of the week it is, I… When that million dollars run out investors are gonna throw money my way for the same reason I’m gonna throw everything I have to this trial, because their dad has it, or their wife. Breakthroughs don’t happen because of the medicine, real breakthroughs happen because someone is scared to death to stop trying.”

Nur

terus terang, saya tidak pernah melihat drama nur kasih the series. sudah lama saya tidak mengikuti mana-mana drama melayu atas alasan tiada masa. hakikatnya, saya tidak berselera menonton drama melayu kerana kurang daya tarikan di samping jalan ceritanya yang sangat cliche.

tetapi Nur Kasih the movie, ternyata berbeza. nampaknya industri tanah air telah akhirnya melalui revolusi yang saya barangkali tak pernah nak follow-up. Filem ini mengajar erti keredhaan, kasih sayang, pengorbanan, keikhlasan hati dan sejauh mana kepercayaan kita dgn ketentuan illahi melalui pengolahan jalan cerita yang cukup indah sekali.

abaikan la 'tahajjud cinta' di mana majoriti dari kalangan kita, kurang gemar dengan cara penyampaian drama bersiri tersebut.

ya, industri hiburan tanah air kita masih banyak lagi yang perlu diperbaiki. nisbah rancangan bermanfaat jauh ketinggalan dari rancangan2 tv yg penuh dgn hiburan semata-mata dan melalaikan.

malah rancangan2 yang kononnya mempunyai niat yang murni, gagal mencapai misi akibat dari kekurangan ilmu dalam sesetengah aspek yg ingin disampaikan.

Namun, sepanjang beberapa tahun saya jauh dari tanah air, apabila melihat negara sendiri dari kaca mata luar, mungkin negara kita mula sedar akan kepentingan perkara yang paling asas sekali, iaitu agama yang teguh amat penting dalam pembangunan sesebuah negara.

contohnya, perbankan islam, *menurut bapa saya sendiri* walaupun tidak 'islam' lagi secara menyeluruh, namun, kita sudah mula mengorak langkah kearahnya dgn mewujudkan sistem2 baru berasaskan islam yang cuba diterapkan ke dalam bank2 di seluruh negara. Untuk mengubah keseluruhan sistem sekaligus adalah mustahil, namun jika dapat diubah sedikit demi sedikit, maka insyaAllah, satu hari, perbankan islam akn menjadi islam yang benar2 islam.

maka, mungkin, teori yang sama dapat digunakan dalam industri hiburan di negara kita. mungkin segelintir drama atau filem yang ingin menerapkan ciri-ciri islamik bukanlah islam secara menyeluruh. contohnya, pelakon wanita yang hanya menutup aurat semata-mata kerana disuruh oleh tuan direktor, namun realitinya di luar lokasi penggambaraan, auratnya dibuka. ataupun berlakunya penyentuhan di antara lelaki dan wanita yang hanya bergelar suami isteri berpandukan skrip yang diberi padahal keduanya bukanlah suami isteri yang sah.

tetapi sesebuah drama ataupun filem malah apa-apa sekalipun, perlu dilihat secara menyeluruh. dan di dalam konteks ini, apa yang paling penting adalah mesej yang ingin disampaikan kepada masyarakat awam serta cara penyampaian mesej tersebut. adakah para penonton benar2 paham tentang intipati drama tersebut? atau ia hanya sekadar hiburan, untuk suka2, sekadar utk release tension atau menghabiskan masa yang terluang? dan sekiranya kita berjaya memperoleh pengajaran darinya, adakah kita mempraktikannya/menggunakannya atau kita akan lupakan sahaja?

namun, yang halal adalah jelas halalnya. dan yang haram, adalah jelas haramnya. kerana islam adalah agama yang cukup jelas. sama jelasnya dgn syurga dan neraka. yang hitam dan putihnya. tiada "grey area" dalam islam.

tetapi mungkin, kita sedang mengorak langkah ke arah islam yang menyeluruh. maka perlunya suara dan pertolongan yang berilmu dan arif, untuk membimbing mereka yang masih lagi kurang jelas tentang Islam yang sebenar.

pendapat saya, oleh kerana media massa membawa pengaruh yang amat besar sekali di dalam masyarakat kita, maka mereka2 yang bertanggungjawab menghasilkan karya perlu membuat penyelidikan yang rapi dan menyeluruh sebelum ditayangkan kepada masyarakat umum.

Kita pula sebagai warga umum juga perlu berfikiran lebih matang, dan perlu mengadakan penyelidikan sendiri untuk menapis apa sahaja yang media massa persembahkan kepada kita.

Janganlah kita terlalu cepat melabelkan sesuatu perkara. Mungkin sesuatu yang tampak baik, ada agenda lain yang tersembunyi. Mungkin sesuatu yang tampak gelap, ada sinar di sebaliknya.

tiba masanya untuk kita berhenti bersikap tidak-mahu-ambil-tahu, atau acuh tak acuh tentang apa sahaja isu yang berlaku di sekeliling kita sama ada isu2 dalam negara mahupun luar negara.

Ramadhan ke-21 dalam hidup saya akan tiba tidak lama lagi. Selamat menyambut Ramadhan Al-Mubarak. Semoga kita menggunakan peluang Ramadhan kali ini dgn sebaiknya. InsyaAllah.

p/s: terima kasih pada seseorg itu kerana recommend filem Nur Kasih :) ya, memang tak dapat dinafikan, ceritanya sangat sedih. :(

#9

“When we’re feeling empty and at our weakest, it’s hard to give love. Even to God. It’s then that what we need most is to fill ourselves with something else: His love for us.”

That’s why in loving Allah, really, the love is a one of the greatest rewards. :)

#8

All i did was read it from books. if only i have all the money in the world. *sigh*

i want an adventure. a big one!

*capai another book from the bookshelf*